Relation can be explain as a thing which involves communication between, group, society, religion or person. This definition of relation is for all types of relations like Parents -children, teacher – student, husband-wife, boyfriend- girlfriends etc. But very relation trust is more important.If trust will finished your relation will be also finished. Here we are focusing on most important relation that is partner or married couple or we can say Husband – wife. Regarding marriage couple thinking is very wrong. About marriage there are many myths ;
1- Before marriage romance up ,After marriage romance down
Many couple think that before marriage they both enjoy their relation very well by giving gift to each other, talking long hour, and spending lot of time with each other and after marriage these all things stop so they think that their partner doesn’t loves but this is totally wrong because gifting to each other, talking long hour, and spending lot of time with each other this is not romance but the fact is that after marriage you both come closer to each other more.and this is romance.Give respect to each other. From your deep of heart take care of your partner , giving freedom, respecting thought this is romance.
2- After marriage sex go to hell
After marriage sex life of couple go to hell most of today’s couple think like this. We all known that as passes of time period are schedule become busy and passion, craze is down. Its human tendency ,nature .so don’t worry just take care of your partner love romance sex will be automatically grown up.
3- Argument ,argue and only argument after marriage
All thinks that after marriage only argument crop between couple but they don’t know that they are thinking wrong .when two person discussing on any topic then that not call argument that is call best idea to come on one point. Couple call communication to argument. But we know that communication is not argument but its best for a healthy, stable, and functional relationship. So for healthy relation communication is best. Do Argument as you can.
4- After baby in life problem between couple goes on
Yes its right baby can make life of couple more interesting but it doesn’t mean that all problem short-out . Baby is not reason for arising problem or solution of problem but baby is for happiness in life. It it totally depend upon you that how you are dealing your relation. Feeling of your couple only you can address your relation or marriage life not baby.
5- If he or she love then they know what needs , feeling about feeling
Couple think that if partner loves then they know automatically about all things about their partner feelings ,their needs etc but you should think that your couple is not God they are also human being .so if you want any things then you have to communicate with your partners. Its scientifically proof that communicate, for no relationship ever succeeded by giving the silent treatment with the expectation that if your partner loves you enough, they will just know what you need and want.
6- Marriage went to hell when you keep first your child need
Its wrong to think that keeping first need of own child on marriage your marriage life spoil. Very parents always give first priority to his child. It does’t mean that due to your child your marriage life spoil but child can make your life more interesting and powerful and full of love. Even they can learn many things from you both couple if you will behave cool your give priority to your child. You can set an example for your child. Your marriage should make your kids aspire to have a similar one with someone someday.
7- If partner love they will change themselves for me
Changing is good but thinking that if he or she loves then he or she will be change all his habits for me its wrong. Don’t care about change of your partner it doesn’t your matters your job is to loves your partner with deep of your heart.
Marriage is such a critical and beautiful experience that all should enjoy marriage experience and if you were thinking about marriage then don’t care about all theses types of wrong myths.Only respect your partners feeling emotion and ideas.And loves your partner with deep of your heart.